People get divorced because they either get really annoyed at their spouse but some other reasons are that they were just not in love which won't last. In Nigeria several divorce cases have been reported.
Most Married Men at the age of 45 end up in divorce due to one reason or the other, while women are likely to end in divorce at the age of 40/60. Divorce happen either because there is no love in the relationship and the marriage wasn’t a good choice.
There are also evidence that indicates that children whose parent divorce more than
once are worse off than children that experienced one parental divorce. The
yelling and screaming can affect the kid in school and home, in mental way and
social ways.
Some
solution to problems in the home are to go to marriage counseling before
going into married, so that parent can
see if settling married is actually right for them.
There are only a few married couples that stay till deaths.
Marry
your friend, someone you can relate with, tell anything, share you burden, that
understand you and know you at least 70%.
Many
people either cheat or don’t keep vows sacred. When couples are fighting constantly
they should not have kids around. The real solution to marriage is make sure
the person you love, loves you in return. Some will say how would you know
because of pretense; you will know when there is love present.
Therefore
divorce does have many bad effect and but few solution. Going through divorce
is a troubling process that is socially and economically troubling. When couple gets married there should be a law that no one can get divorced.
Written by JAMES ABRAHAM I.
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