The latest drama between BBNaija star Phyna and controversial activist VeryDarkMan (popularly known as VDM) has taken over social media, becoming one of the most talked-about celebrity stories in Nigeria this week. What started as a plea for help has now escalated into a heated back-and-forth filled with accusations of betrayal, clarifications, and even official statements from one of Africa’s biggest companies.
The story began when Phyna cried out online after her younger sister was involved in a ghastly accident with a Dangote truck. Desperate for justice and immediate medical intervention, she reached out to VDM, who is known for his bold activism and for calling out corporate organizations on issues affecting everyday Nigerians. VDM immediately threw his weight behind her, vowing to ensure that Dangote’s management took responsibility for the matter and that Phyna’s sister got the medical care she needed. He personally pushed for a meeting with Dangote’s representatives and even accompanied Phyna to some stages of the discussion.
However, according to VDM, everything took a different turn when Phyna allegedly went ahead to attend an important meeting with Dangote’s team without informing him. In a series of social media posts, VDM narrated that he felt betrayed because he had been at the forefront of the fight, only for Phyna to leave him out at a critical stage. He claimed that Phyna later told him that the Dangote team was “scared of him,” a statement that triggered even more outrage from his loyal supporters.
Phyna, on her part, has denied betraying VDM. In an interview, she explained that she had no intention of sidelining him and that she had tried to keep him updated during the entire process. She said that while she appreciates all his efforts in supporting her, she had to follow through with the meeting to ensure that her sister’s case was taken seriously. According to her, she never disrespected or disregarded him, but the situation demanded urgent action.
Following this fallout, VDM came online to set what he now calls his new “rules of engagement.” He revealed that from now on, anyone who seeks his intervention in such matters must agree to have all meetings and sessions recorded. He explained that this is the only way to protect himself from future accusations or misunderstandings, insisting that too many people have turned his goodwill into negative stories. While some people criticized him for making the issue more dramatic, many of his followers applauded the move, describing it as a smart step to maintain transparency and protect his integrity.
Amidst all the drama, Dangote’s camp finally broke their silence. In an official message addressed to Phyna, the company confirmed that they had received her sister’s medical reports and were reviewing them. They further assured that once she was certified fit to travel, they would take full responsibility for her medical treatment and ensure she received proper care. This update gave some hope to Phyna’s family and her fans, though she has maintained that she will only relax once she sees real action and not just promises.
The Phyna and VDM saga has continued to dominate Twitter trends and Instagram conversations. For many, it shows how quickly trust can break down when personal struggles meet public activism. Some fans believe Phyna was simply doing what she needed to do to protect her sister, while others insist she should have respected VDM’s efforts more and kept him by her side throughout. On the other hand, VDM’s insistence on setting new rules reflects the challenges of online activism in Nigeria, where intentions can easily be misunderstood, and trust is often fragile.
One thing is clear: this is more than just a random online fight. It is a story that touches on accountability, trust, influence, and the power of social media in Nigeria today. Phyna’s vulnerability as a sister fighting for her sibling, VDM’s loud voice as a self-proclaimed social justice warrior, and Dangote’s responsibility as a corporate giant have all combined to create a drama that keeps millions of Nigerians glued to their phones. The updates continue to flow daily, and for now, it is safe to say that the Phyna and VDM gist is far from over.
