Actress and author Juliana Olayode has once again stirred deep reflection across social media with her brutally honest post about sexual purity and desire. Known for her bold faith and strong values, Juliana opened up about the emotional and spiritual battles that come with choosing purity in a world that normalizes the opposite.
In her heartfelt message, she admitted that being committed to sexual purity doesn’t mean she doesn’t feel desires or have temptations. She wrote about how people often assume she doesn’t understand what it means to want intimacy but the truth is, she does.
“Sometimes, I just want sex. I want to get laid. But it’s not that I don’t have these feelings. I just choose not to act on them. Every day, I have to make a choice between my desires and my relationship with God.”
Juliana went on to say that she has faced mockery, judgment, and even loss of opportunities in the movie industry because of her decision to stand by her convictions. She revealed that she’s turned down several acting roles and career opportunities that didn’t align with her values.
“It hurts sometimes. I feel like I lose a lot when I say no to roles or relationships that don’t honor God. People laugh and say I’m not getting jobs anymore, but they don’t know the sacrifices behind my decisions.”
She also expressed that many people would think differently if they understood what she gives up for the sake of purity. But despite it all, Juliana says she remains steadfast.
“I can do it, but I choose not to. I don’t want it outside of God’s plan. I’m not the most holy person, but I’m doing my best to honor Him with my life. Sexual purity isn’t easy — it’s a daily choice.”
Juliana’s post also called out the idea of “convenient Christianity,” where people live by faith only when it’s easy or socially acceptable. She reminded her followers that true devotion to God requires sacrifice.
“People talk about grace, but few want to talk about the sacrifice that comes with following Jesus. The cross wasn’t convenient, and neither is purity. But I’ve decided to live by His standard, no matter the cost.”
The actress concluded her post by reaffirming her commitment to God and purity, emphasizing that she is not ashamed of her faith or her choices.
“As long as I hold God’s hands and He leads me, I’ll be fine. I may not have everything I want right now, but I have peace. I’m okay with my Jesus just leave me with Him.”
Juliana Olayode’s transparency has sparked admiration and empathy across social media. Her story is a reminder that sexual purity is not about perfection or pretense, but about discipline, faith, and surrender.
Her honesty gives voice to countless young people facing the same struggle proving that choosing purity in today’s world isn’t weakness; it’s courage.

